
A reflective meditation on St. John of the Cross’s call to detach from all attachments—even our concepts of God—to experience divine union through grace. Drawing on Scripture and mystical insight, this piece invites readers to let go of self-reliance and embrace God’s transformative presence beyond human effort.

Fr. James Martin, SJ reminds us that authentic love requires letting go of control, ownership, and the illusion of possession. True love honors the dignity, freedom, and sacredness of the other person. This reflection invites us to embrace a “poverty of spirit” that releases our grasp and allows love to be freely given and…