
Most of us were taught that loving others is a virtue we cultivate by turning outward. But Jesus’s second great commandment carries a hidden demand: that we first receive the love we are commanded to give. This reflection sits with Johannes Baptist Metz’s unsettling claim that flight from self is flight from God —…

This reflection explores how God’s unconditional love invites us to accept our full selves — including our flaws and brokenness — so we can love others with the same boundless grace, transforming shame into compassionate connection.